Paul Bob Coach


The myth of the man inside the Bottle is really old and really the surrender of our power: we always ask the Genie for a wish to be our command to fulfill. Some of us seasoned smugglers go so far as to ask for 100 more wishes right at the start. The Remarkable Way has a more […]

For The Man Who Wants It All Life on your terms is more than a title, slogan or threat by any man. Life on your terms is a position you decide to claim that creates your own territory to own. Owning has proven far more valuable and unwavering than renting or visiting or borrowing. So when you […]

  Progressing peacefully with discomfort is a Remarkable Practice.  As men, we do our best to avoid discomfort in circumstances, people and change. Avoidance always fosters procrastination which purchases time and our way around discomfort whenever possible. Living these days in our comfort obsessed consumer crusade, only reinforces this strategy at every turn. We were not taught […]

“Confidence is a shell game”.  Most men think they need more and want more: “if only I had more!”  B.S!  If I gave you a truckload of confidence, what would you do with it? And why do so many men want so much confidence? They claim it will really make them ready and able…… Ready and able for what? […]

Is our anger ok?….”Hell yes!” Is our anger ok everywhere?…”Hell no!” Choosing between healthy and unhealthy anger is the real balancing act. Some men describe it as productive anger versus unproductive anger. Productive anger fuels our drive to go out and get what we want and need in our world. Counter productive anger damages property, hurts people, wrecks the whole scene and some times puts […]

Man, Do Your Purpose! “I just want to know my purpose!”. Why do men want to know their purpose? Some men spend years searching and seeking. Other men simply live life right in front of them. I like to split purpose from higher purpose to simplify matters. I Coach that our purpose means providing for our daily lives as measured by […]

Do you have a spiritual source? NOT RELIGION.  Do you have a space for deep connection, grounding and significant knowing for where you stand and how you define yourself. Many men live with a spiritual connection to something alive, infinite and universal; other men believe that everything and everyone is simply circumstantially “here.” Knowing on which side you […]